What makes a woman an ideal wife/partner?
Think about it for a while and get ready for the surprising answer.
According to the Pew Research Center, 93% of Millennial men (age 18 to 29) look for ” a good mother”. Yes, a good mother, you read it! Yes, you’re right, we are in 2011 and this survey was made in April this same exact year. Moreover, the woman has to be caring and compassionate (for 88%). The third quality most appreciated is the fact a woman has the will to put her family before anything else (74%).
Women also admitted to wanting ” a good father” (91%), a compassionate and caring man who puts his family first. At least, everyone agrees on the most important quality.
This survey reveals a lot about our behaviours and beliefs. I would have personally thought qualities like humour and intelligence would be more important but apparently not. A “well-educated” partner is considered as important only by 52% of men and 38% of women.
For one woman in three, an ideal partner has to provide a good income whereas the same belief is shared by only approximately one man in ten. But i think if we compared the survey to some about Gen Xers or Boomers, it would still show a huge progress.
When it comes to household chores, it is agreeable to see that the same amount of women and men think it a valuable quality. But, once again, is that really what we look for when marrying someone or deciding to spend your life with someone?
When it comes to love, this survey seems to imply to it’s probably better for everyone ( men and women) to just practice changing diapers than to waste time studying.
http://pewsocialtrends.org/2011/03/09/for-millennials-parenthood-trumps-marriage/3/
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